Kelly Wegner

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” James 1:19

As a young girl, I remember my dad repeatedly using the phrase, “The good Lord gave you two ears and one mouth so you can listen twice as much as you talk.” Dad was a Marine, and a man of few words by nature. Having two daughters who spoke approximately 20,000 words daily resulted in us hearing the aforementioned phrase when dad needed a little peace and quiet.

The book of James offers such practical, life-giving advice. The ability to listen well is often times the key to understanding people and situations with a more compassionate posture. However, what I find most comforting and miraculous is not my ability (or inability) to listen well…but that the King of Kings and Creator of the entire cosmos chooses to listen to me and then He graciously allows me to hear His “voice” in return.

“I love the LORD, for he heard my voice, he heard my cry for mercy. Because He turned his ear to me, I will call on Him as long as I live.”

Psalm 116:1-2

My mind struggles to comprehend the wonder of unrestricted access to God’s ear and throne, but my heart is forever filled with gratitude and praise that deeply flawed but beloved children are absorbed by a love and grace too wonderful for words, a love that listens.

Sweet sisters, I pray that God’s voice will be the loudest one in your life. There is tremendous joy to be experienced when we listen for His leading, use our words wisely and remember our Heavenly Father delights in His children. (Zephaniah 3:17)

“For this reason God highly exalted Him and gave Him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow – of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth – and every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Philippians 2:9-11 (HCSB)

I recently watched a documentary on Alexander the Great. Although he is somewhat controversial, his prowess as a military leader goes undisputed. After assuming a prominent role in his mid-twenties, Alexander proceeded to march his army 12,000 miles in 12 years’ time and conquer lands from Egypt to Palestine. It is said Alexander the Great wept when there were no more lands to conquer. A few days ago, I heard a new account concerning him. As the story goes…Alexander the Great learned of a cowardly foot soldier in his army who was his namesake. The general summoned the cowardly foot soldier and asked two questions.

Alexander the Great: “Is your name Alexander?”

Foot soldier: “Yes, General. My name is Alexander”

Alexander the Great: “Were you named after me?”

Foot soldier: “Yes, I am named after you.”

Alexander the Great: “Then be brave or change your name.”

Boom. Alexander fancied himself to be a god…as a narcissist, he believed his own name and reputation to be of profound importance.

In contrast, two men in the Old Testament were given a military mission. Joshua and Caleb, along with ten others, were instructed to spy and report on the land of Canaan. God had promised this land to the Israelites. Only Joshua and Caleb returned from their mission with faith in the Living God. These two men knew their faith and any fear could be remedied by the Name Above All Names.

“Choose this day whom you will serve. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Joshua 24:15

Bigger Boom.

Shakespeare once famously penned the phrase, “What’s in a name?” Well, it all depends which name is being referenced. The names players and fans wear on the back of athletic jerseys, names that are famous, noteworthy or newsworthy…even the most positive role-models among us…pale in comparison to the one and only Name worthy of our worship.

“For this reason God highly exalted Him and gave Him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow – of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth – and every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Philippians 2:9-11 (HCSB)

Obviously, God gets the “Biggest Boom” of all!

Today, if you do not know Jesus Christ as the Name Above All Names…please reach out to any member of the Sweet Monday staff or any board member. We would be honored to share some very good news with you!

“Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.” Jeremiah 29:12

We have four wonderfully unique, strong children. I am convinced they have taught their parents almost as much as we have taught them through the years. Parenting is “on the job training” and offers countless opportunities to kneel in prayer, be humbled, learn and grow.

Our eldest daughter is now 22 years old. In the midst of a difficult situation in high school…we were going round and round on a certain topic. Finally, at a point of exhaustion for both of us, she wisely said, “Mom, if you are quiet on this subject…maybe I’ll be able to hear God’s voice.” Whoa.

In this moment, our daughter recognized a profound truth…as children of God, we need His voice to be the loudest one in our heads and hearts. As believers, we experience seasons where the closeness of God’s presence almost feels tangible. Then, if your faith walk is anything like mine, there are other seasons when I pray and feel a bit like I’m leaving God a voicemail. Crickets.

The truth about our Heavenly Father is this…He is always in the business of being God. As Scripture says:

“Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.” Jeremiah 29:12

“My sheep hear my voice, I know them, and they follow me.” John 10:27

Sometimes God’s voice is “booming” and there is clarity. Sometimes God’s voice is a whisper. Sometimes God’s voice is silent. Take heart though… God is ALWAYS attentive and listening. He will meet your deepest needs in His perfect timing.

If you know Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, then you are a child of The Creator of the Universe (WOW!)…you are beloved…you are seen, heard and invited into the most precious life-giving and life-changing relationship that exists.

Lord, we invite You to be the loudest voice in every aspect of our lives. Thank You for caring about both the big picture and the details. In Jesus Name. Amen.

“Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.” John 8:10-1

Last year, I reached out to friends asking for prayer. My text went something like this, “Good morning ladies! Quick prayer request. My previous husband is having a medical procedure this morning. The last one didn’t go so well. Please pray for no complications.” Simple enough.

Do you ever proofread AFTER the fact? As you can imagine – there was a slow response from the group and friends wondering why I had left out a substantial part of my story. Truth be told, I’ve only been married one time and meant to request prayer for my “precious husband”…since the “C” key is directly next to the “V” key…mistakenly, I had requested prayer for a non-existent “previous” one. We had a good laugh…and a great takeaway…the order is everything.

Recently this principle was highlighted by a local pastor and friend of ours who was teaching on the woman caught in an adulterous act.

“Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

“No one, sir,” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared.

“Go now and leave your life of sin.” John 8:10-1

The order here has eternal significance and is truly everything!

What could have been an opportunity to publicly shame this woman…Jesus used as an opportunity to display perfect wisdom, grace, compassion and love to one who was vulnerable.

Jesus did not ask her to become presentable first…and He doesn’t ask it of us. We are completely accepted and dearly loved exactly where we are…and then encouraged to not stay in that place. The order is everything!

This is something worth smiling about on any Sweet Monday!

“He is dressed in a robe dipped in blood, and his name is the Word of God. The armies of heaven were following Him, riding on white horses and dressed in fine linen, white and clean” Revelation 19:13,14.

Recently, a well-respected Bible teacher here in Nashville suggested reading the first 3 chapters of Genesis paired with the last 3 chapters of Revelation. These chapters bookend God’s pursuit of mankind after the fall and His redemption and restoration in the end.

Interestingly enough, it is Revelation Chapter 19 that hits close to home.
My sweet husband, Dean, graduated from West Point. Upon completion of flight school and Ranger school, he (or should I say “we” J) served 7 years in the US Army.

The instant community, the steadfast commitment to uphold “Duty, Honor, Country” coupled with a willingness to sacrifice…all very good things that come with the territory. The thing that never “comes with the territory” is a white uniform on the battlefield.

Fatigues, in a variety of patterns and colors, are worn by the various branches of military service. Fatigues are considered to be the combat or field uniform. When a soldier dons a white uniform…there is cause to celebrate…this has never been more true than in the case of Revelation 19:13,14. The saints wear white linen and enjoy the MOST splendid victory lap as they follow their Redeemer into a battle that He has already won on their behalf.

Talk about a reason to rejoice! Take heart sweet friends, the victory lap is coming!

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Death will be no more; grief, crying and pain will be no more, because previous things have passed away. Then the one seated on the throne said, ‘Look, I am making everything new.’” Revelation 21:4,5

Recently, this remarkable sculpture, The Knife Angel, completed in 2018, came across my path. This work of art, created by artist Alfie Bradley and the British Ironworks Centre was fashioned from over 100,000 blunted knives. The purpose of this 27 foot tall masterpiece was to highlight knife crime and the terrible effect of violent behavior in the United Kingdom. “Two hundred knife banks were produced by Ironworks and amnesties held for individuals to anonymously donate their knives. Many were sent in by the police that had been taken as crime samples.”

We have 4 lovable and extremely active children. Our youngest son is 10 years old. This precious little boy has enough energy to supply power to a small village. After months of quarantining, I recently informed my former Army Ranger, extremely steady husband of the fact that “I have felt like a camp counselor for the past 5 months and have no new material left!”

(This enthusiastic declaration was followed by a visit to a closet and a few shed tears.)

The quiet moments when a soul feels completely overwhelmed can bring clarity. God is ever so timely and faithful with His sweet reminders. 

In the midst of death, chaos, confusion, uncertainty…when I’m tempted to seek shelter in a closet because meeting needs feels exasperating…I’m reminded that our gracious Heavenly Father is very much seated on a glorious eternal throne. He is very much in the business of taking what is ugly and hard and re-purposing for kingdom purposes. 

A pale comparison at best, but like the Knife Angel, God is currently “making all things new”…redeeming all things for His glory! 

Stay in the game sweet sisters!